The Questions We Don’t Ask…
I’m gonna jump straight into it: there are so many questions in the world that our brains sometimes can’t comprehend them all, the questions we want to think of and to ask. If your question to another person changes your life and theirs forever, simply asking the right question can gift you an answer and an emotional feeling in your heart that you never thought possible. Questions are powerful, just like words; it’s how you shape the question, and how you ask it with emotion, to see the reaction in another.
It’s a bit like asking if someone is in love with you, or do they love you, two different questions with two different answers. It’s like asking “how are you” versus “how are you feeling ”two prompts that yield distinct responses. The more detailed and structured your question, the more likely you’ll receive a nuanced answer, revealing their emotions and how they may feel about you.
Sometimes in our minds we already know the answer we want to hear, coloured by our feelings, attachments, or fear.
Sometimes asking a question you desperately want answered can be scary, or fear can freeze you from asking the one you’ve always wanted. I realize life is too short not to ask. Being open with your emotions who you are, and your emotional stability can help you understand yourself and the people you love, care about or work with. One thing I notice: we often hide our emotions and don’t ask the questions. When we love or care for someone, it can unsettle us, creating an emotional imbalance.
Asking questions is beautiful: it helps you understand others, and it reveals the architecture of who they are regardless, and why they are the way they are. Questions can educate your mind, sharpen memory, aid in healing trauma, or shift how you see life. The hardest questions about love or building relationships may feel daunting, but even then, answers can emerge as you dare to ask. The questions we don’t ask the ones we need can hinder our own growth, regardless of whether the answers are painful, positive, or kind.
I’m going to ask you to do something today: ask someone the question you never imagined asking. In doing so, you might change your own life. Yes, asking questions takes strength, confidence, even charisma, but not asking leaves a long, anticipated ache in your mind: what, why, why didn’t I? If the power of words is beautiful, then make your questions just as beautiful by asking them.
Continue To Be Kind To One Another And Keep Saving The Planet Earth - Savia Rocks 🥇🎧🍀✨🎤
